At this time in the history of man, a great deal of
hatred is being expressed against individuals
whose lifestyle is described in the title of this brochure. Much of this hatred is expressed
by well-meaning people who are very concerned about the way the world is going. Many of them
profess to believe the Bible is the word of God. Many of them claim to be Christians.
Many well-meaning people feel that the Bible condones expressions of hatred or acts of
violence toward people who live in these ways.
Interestingly enough, most of the feelings expressed are toward those who fall into the
category of Homosexual or "Gay" men and Lesbian women. There seems to be a double standard
in society when two out of the four lifestyles described cause expressions of hatred and
violence and the other two are looked upon as acceptable conduct.
If you think the Bible teaches that God hates homosexuals and lesbians, you are very wrong.
On the other hand, if you believe that God condones the conduct of the fornicator and the
adulterer, you are wrong.
The
God of the Bible loves people of all persuasions, all races and all lifestyles, because,
He is love. *1 In fact, the Bible tells us that
God loves us so much that even though He doesn't approve of our conduct at times,
He sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to suffer and die for our sins. *2
In fact, the Bible tells us that we are not really responsible for the fact
that we have a sinful nature. *3 We inherited it from our grandfather,
Adam. Because of that one man's sin, sin entered the world and we all became sinners.
In fact, God loves all sinners, (the proud, the selfish, the covetous, the mean, the hateful,
and the immoral) so much that He made it possible for each of us to be forgiven our sins and have a
meaningful relationship with Him. The only thing that prevents us from this relationship is not
accepting Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior. In fact, Jesus Christ is
the light that lights every man that comes into the world, *4
he came into this world because he loved us not because he hates us. He said, "Come
to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and
learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls."
*5 He came, "to seek and to save that which was lost."
*6
Since God is a loving God, and since the wages of sin is death,
*7 disappointment, disillusionment and heartache, God has warned us
about lifestyles that, in time, will cause us to be disappointed and disillusioned. In fact,
he says there is a way that seems right to men, but the end of that way is a
way of death. *8 Being a loving God, it is necessary that He warn us.
So God has made it very clear that unfulfilling conduct is defined in the Bible in such a way
that we can be warned and turn away from it. One of the clear warnings from the Bible is,
Romans 1:21-32
Professing to be wise, they became fools ...
who exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature
rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen. For this reason God gave them
up to vile passions Even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against
nature «lesbian women». Likewise also the men, leaving the
natural use of the woman burned in their lust for one another, men with men
committing what is shameful, «gay men» and receiving in themselves
the penalty of their error which was due. And even as they did not like to retain
God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a debased mind, to do those things which
are not fitting; Being filled with all unrighteousness, sexual immorality,
«fornicators and adulterers» wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness;
full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, evilmindedness; they are whisperers, backbiters,
haters of God, violent, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to
parents, undiscerning, untrustworthy, unloving, unforgiving, unmerciful; Who, knowing
the righteous judgment of God, that those who practice such things are worthy of death,
not only do the same but also approve of those who practice them.
The observation might be made that this quotation speaks of hatred for the people
guilty of any or all of these sins but this is not the case.
God,
because He loves you, gives you this information
before it is too late to change your life. In addition, He has made it possible for you
to change. When you accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, He enables you to have
victory over habits and lifestyles that are unfulfilling. The apostle Paul said,
he could do all things through Christ Jesus
*10
and when one accepts Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior
old things pass away and all things become new.
*11
God loves all sinners, but He doesn't love sin. Christians should love all people
but we should not love or tolerate sin. In fact, Christians are told to
have no fellowship with sinful lifestyles but to reprove and
warn them.
*12
So many times, people seek counseling, they read and they study,
trying to find peace of mind or purpose for life, but they fail to realize
they were born alienated from God. They need Jesus Christ as their Savior to
enable them to fill the void in their life. Without Him they travel many
wrong roads. Remember,
John 3:16-19
For God so loved (adulterers, homosexuals,
lesbians, fornicators and you) that He gave His only begotten Son,
that, (adulterers, homosexuals,
lesbians, fornicators and you) if they believe in Him should not
perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the
world to condemn (adulterers, homosexuals,
lesbians, fornicators and you), but that they through Him might be
saved. If (adulterers, homosexuals,
lesbians, fornicators and you) believe in Him they are not condemned;
but if (adulterers, homosexuals,
lesbians, fornicators and you) do not believe, they are condemned already,
because they have not believed in the name of the only
begotten Son of God. And this is the condemnation, that the
light has come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light,
because their deeds were evil. For everyone practicing evil hates the
light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed.
A
loving God and Savior warns mankind of unfulfilling lifestyles
and died that they might have a fulfilled life and live a lifestyle that
will be fulfilling for time and eternity. All you need to do is call
out to him for mercy, asking him to be your savior and your sins
will be forgiven. You will have the power to change your lifestyle.
A loving God doesn't save you to continue living an unfulfilling
lifestyle but he saves you
out of, or from, your sins.
*14
Your lifestyle will then conform to the conduct God has said will bring
peace, joy, happiness, and a glorious anticipation of eternity.
by Robert A. Grove
*1 Romans 8:39; 1 John 4:8
*2 Genesis 13:13, 18:20, 19:4-11; Leviticus 20:13;
Deuteronomy 23:17; Judges 19:22-24; Romans 5:6; 1 Corinthians 5:9-13, 6:11;
Galatians 5:19-21; 2 Peter 2:6; Jude 1:7
*3 Romans 5:6, 5:12-21; 1 Corinthians 15:21-22
*4 John 1:8-12; 1 John 3:16, 4:9, 5:2-3
*5 Matthew 11:28-30
*6 Luke 19:10
*7 Romans 6:23
*8 Proverbs 14:12, 16:25
*9 Romans 1:21-32
*10 Philippians 4:13
*11 2 Corinthians 5:17, 1 Corinthians 6:9-11
*12 Ephesians 5:11-12
*13 John 3:16-19 (paraphrased by the writer)
*14 John 8:11; 1 John 3:3, 5:3-5
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